Why it's time to let go of the "good Indian child" identity & how you can start TODAY
Because, there’s just so much pressure to be, do, have and say it all….right?
I know I’m not speaking for myself when I say, we’ve all felt the pressure
Of 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘥.
Of 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴.
Of 𝘢𝘤𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘭𝘦𝘥𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘤𝘳𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘦𝘴 that have been 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘶𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘭𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘭 𝘰𝘧 𝘱𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦.
But in trying *so* hard to be *everything*, 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 ends up happening in the meantime?
We stay stuck in the
— overthinking
— overanalysing
— inaction
— self-doubt
𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬
— 𝘸𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘴𝘦𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘲𝘶𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘴, 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴 .
REMEMBER:
𝗪𝐞 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐝 & 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐟𝐮𝐥
𝘈𝘕𝘋
remember that 𝐰𝐞 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬, 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬.
𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘴𝘮𝘢𝘭𝘭.
𝘐𝘵’𝘴 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘭𝘢𝘪𝘮 & 𝘳𝘦𝘥𝘦𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 “𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘰𝘯𝘦”
Not sure how to get started?
Here are a few simple ways you can today:
Start to get clear on your boundaries
Start questioning instead of blindly accepting
Start to say no
Ask for space
Voice your opinions…
…even if that means disagreeing with someone
A lot of the time it comes down to trusting ourselves.
If you’re just starting on this journey, then start SMALL.
And if you’re looking to build SUCH strong self trust then you can get in touch for more 1:1 support or join the waitlist using the link below.